If someone asks me: What kind of person do you want to raise your children to be?
I would answer: I hope he can become a happy and ordinary person. I hope he can be confident, sunny, and positive, so that he can become the person he wants and live his ideal life. In the process of raising children, we should not pursue grades and achievements too much, but should pay attention to the children's inner feelings and happiness. As long as the child is happy and healthy, it doesn't matter even if it's ordinary. Because in this world, not everyone can become a great person, but everyone can become a hero in their own life. Let us work together to create a better future for our children! Today, I want to share 20 parenting methods with you, hoping to help you raise your children happily and healthily.
1. Letting children play mobile phones and games is not a bad thing. Mobile phones and games are an integral part of modern society and one of the ways children will work and live in the future. By exposing children to these things, they can better adapt to their future social environment.
2. It is also very important for children to focus on one sport. Sports can enhance children's physical fitness and willpower, improve their self-confidence and teamwork ability. Basketball, football, badminton, table tennis and other sports are very suitable for children to participate in, allowing them to gain happiness and a sense of achievement in sports.
3. Starting from kindergarten, it is also very necessary to assign some housework to children. This develops a sense of responsibility and independence in children, allowing them to learn to take care of themselves and their family. At the same time, it can also help them understand the importance of labor and cultivate their gratitude.
4. If you love a child, you should also love his father (mother), and he can also learn to love his family and children. The family is an important place for children to grow up. Parents should establish correct values and morals for their children so that they can learn to respect and care for others.
5. Don’t pay too much attention to your child’s grades at the beginning, but care about whether he likes to go to school? Do you like this teacher? this is very important. Achievements are not the only criterion for measuring a child's success; caring about the child's interests, hobbies and personality development is the key. By cultivating children's hobbies and social skills, they can better adapt to the future social environment.
6. Show unconditional love to your children every day and we should love our children no matter what. This kind of love is selfless and does not ask for anything in return. We want our children to feel that our love is pure and real. No matter what our children do, we will always support and encourage them.
7. Even if children have many dreams that have not yet been realized, we should not let them sacrifice their own happiness in order to realize our dreams. We want our children to know that the most important thing in life is to pursue their own dreams and happiness, not to live for other people's expectations.
8. Please look into the child’s eyes and squat down to talk to the child. In this way, children can feel our care and respect, and better understand our thoughts and opinions. We want our children to know that we are not only their parents, but also their friends and partners.
9. In addition to praise, there must also be punishment. But punishment is not simply beating and scolding. We want children to know that they are responsible for making mistakes, but we also hope that children can learn from their mistakes and avoid making them again.
10. Do not allow your children to participate in some seemingly advanced courses such as Mathematical Olympiad. These classes can make children feel stressed and anxious, and not every child is suitable for them. We want children to learn in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere and let them enjoy the learning process, so as to better stimulate their learning interest and potential.
11. It is very important for children to stick to a hobby that is beneficial to their body and mind. Painting, music, writing, handicrafts, Taekwondo, etc. are all very good choices. These hobbies not only allow children to learn some skills, but also allow them to relax during play, relieve stress and enhance self-confidence.
12. It is also very important to insist on reading together with your children. Reading is a lifelong habit for children, which can help children improve their language expression skills, broaden their knowledge, and enhance their thinking skills. Parents can read interesting books with their children, so that their children can feel the warmth and love of the family while reading.
13. It is also very important to take the time and patience to play games with your children. Games are one of children’s favorite activities and they can learn a lot while playing. Parents can play some interesting games with their children, such as building blocks, playing in the sand, hide-and-seek, etc., so that their children can grow up happily in the game.
14. When children behave like rogues, parents must stand firm and never compromise. It is normal for children to act naughty sometimes. However, parents must let their children know that making trouble unreasonably is useless and will not gain any benefits. In this way, children will gradually learn to control their emotions and become more sensible.
15. When children fight, parents can first let the children resolve the conflict on their own. Fighting between children is a normal phenomenon, and parents should not interfere too much. When children resolve conflicts on their own, they can learn how to deal with conflicts, how to respect others, and how to cooperate for win-win situations. In this way, the child will gradually learn how to get along with others and become a popular person.
16. As parents, we should look at our children with appreciation. Every child has his or her own strengths and weaknesses. We should see the child's strengths and progress instead of always focusing on the child's shortcomings. This positive outlook can help children build self-confidence and self-esteem, allowing them to face life's challenges more bravely.
17. On weekends, we can take our children to bookstores, visit museums, science and technology museums, art galleries and other cultural places. These activities not only expose children to more knowledge and culture, but also enhance their creativity and imagination. In addition, these activities can also promote family parent-child relationships and enhance family cohesion and happiness.
18. We can teach children some common leisure activities, such as swimming, playing chess, riding bicycles, etc. These activities not only allow children to relax and reduce stress, but also enhance their physical fitness and coordination. These ordinary leisure activities can also become a social platform for children, allowing them to make more friends.
19. In addition to teaching children survival skills, we also need to teach them qualities such as kindness, patience, respect, and tolerance. These qualities are indispensable for children's growth. They can help children get along better with others and handle interpersonal relationships better.
20. We should see the uniqueness of children and respect their personality and habits. Every child is unique, with their own unique interests, hobbies, characteristics and talents. We should respect and encourage their personality development so that they can fully develop and grow in their areas of interest.